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How To Enjoy Gay Sex More

Give Your Love Life a Boost

If you’re not enjoying sex, then there’s no need to despair. With some toys, lube and an open mind, the bedroom will soon be your favourite place.

Sex. For such a little word, it sure does pack a punch. It’s something that most of us are having, but at the same time a lot of us are embarrassed to talk about it. It shouldn’t be that way though! For gay men, sex is a really important part of a relationship. If you and your partner aren’t really connecting in the bedroom, that dissatisfaction could soon seep into other areas of your relationship. So let’s nip those problems in the bud now, and talk about how to have better gay sex.

Try some toys

If you and your partner aren’t using toys, then you’re missing out! They can be used regularly to enhance your sex life, and they can help in those moments where a guy is feeling under pressure to perform. Cock rings and anal plugs are great for beginners, but things like dildos and vibrators don’t need to be intimidating either. Just see what catches your eye!

Love lube

It might not sound particularly exciting, but it’s important not to cut corners when it comes to lube. It helps to make lovemaking more comfortable for both partners, and there’s a type for every guy. Whether you want warming, numbing, tingling or flavoured, finding the best lube for gay sex may be the thing that makes intimacy incredible for you.

Make some time

With the exception of the odd quickie now and again, great sex can’t often be rushed. So set aside evenings that are all about you and your partner. That means no distractions such as phones or tablets. Just spend time getting to know each other’s bodies, even if you’ve been together for a long time. Massage is a great way to get into the mood, and is a really great type of foreplay.

Try something new

Making a vow to try something new regularly is a great way to start enjoying sex more. It doesn’t matter how often you decide to do this – it could be anything from once a month to every day. What matters is that you both come to the bedroom with lots of new ideas and enthusiasm. If something doesn’t work for you, then just move on. If it does, then you can expect fireworks!

Talk it through

So many couples forget one simple thing – communication. Talking about sex is the quickest way to figure out what both of you want from your intimate moments, and it’s also a chance to express opinions about what hasn’t been working. Saying that you’d prefer to do something else isn’t a criticism of your partner’s technique. In fact, it’s more of an invitation to make your physical connection even stronger. So don’t forget to talk before, during and after sex.

Sex can be great, it just takes a little work!

As you can see, it doesn’t take a lot to make your sex life more enjoyable. Providing that both you and your partner are open to trying new things and having fun together, there’s no reason why you can’t have the sex you’ve always dreamed of. So will you make some changes, starting tonight?

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Where Best To Meet Your Escort

Exploring Your Options

When it comes to the location for your appointment, you can choose a place that’s right for you.

So, you’re thinking of hiring an escort. Then you’ve got so much to look forward to! A night with one of the best escorts in London is the perfect way to spice up your love life. When a booking an escort, there is something that a surprising number of men struggle to settle on, and that’s where to meet their escort. There are a few different options available, and which one you go for is totally dependent on your needs. So to help you out a little, the team at Babes of London have put together a guide for you so that you can make the best choice for you.

Your home

An outcall appointment is where the escort travels to you. Home is where many of us feel most comfortable, so it makes sense that lots of guys like to opt for home visits from their escorts. There’s no pressure when you don’t even have to step outside of your front door – no dressing up, no spending extra cash. It’s also a lot easier to connect with an escort intimately when you’re in safe, familiar surroundings – so many nervous clients find that they perform better at home.

Your hotel

For those who are frequent travellers or who desire that little bit more privacy and anonymity, a London hotel is an ideal place to spend the evening with your escort. You’ll be able to be sure that you won’t run into anyone that you know, and if you’re in town for business a night with an escort in your hotel room is a great way of breaking up the tedium. Hotels are also a much more luxurious setting, so they’re perfect for a special occasion.

Your escort’s place

If you prefer to travel to your escort, then you can visit her at her premises for your time together. These kind of appointments are called incall appointments. For men who have concerns about privacy and don’t feel ready to invite an escort into their home or hotel room just yet, this is a great option. You can be sure that the your escort’s incall premises will be clean and well maintained as well as in a safe, easy to find area.

You don’t need to worry

Whatever option you go for, you need to be able to trust your escort fully. That trust only comes when you hire her from a reputable agency like Babes of London. Your privacy and safety will always be the agency’s number one concern, and they’ll do everything they can to ease any worries you may have. Your payment will be processed securely, and you can always be sure that your escort will act professionally. Furthermore, all the details of your date will remain under wraps, giving you complete peace of mind.

Take your time to pick the one that’s right for you

As you can see, each option offers you something different. So take the time to read through them, and choose the one that’s most suited to your needs. Remember, there’s no right or wrong place to meet an escort, and what you pick can change from appointment to appointment. As long as you are happy and confident going into your date, you can be sure you’ve made the right decision.

Preparing To Visit An Escort

There can be a lot to consider, remember and make sure that you do before you finally leave to go to your booking to visit your escort in Barcelona, and not all of it might be obvious, especially if you’ve never been before, and so today we’ll be looking into what you can do in order to prepare to visit an escort.

Make sure that you’re clean and ready to go – grab a shower, trim your nails and make sure that you’re as hygienic and well presented as possible. Make sure that you brush your teeth, but to avoid any gum inflammation which can increase the risk of catching orally transmitted diseases, make sure that you do this at least an hour and a half before, and then lay off anything with a pungent taste, and try your best not to turn up with coffee breath.

On that note, when you get there – make sure that you’re not doing anything to put your escort at risk. If you have any questions about the location that you’re meeting, call beforehand either from your home or from your car. The last thing you should do is ask someone about your escort, call from a hotel lobby, or call from her building or street. She’d be discreet, or is being discreet, if you need her to be, and so the least that you can do is offer the same back. Be subtle with any questions, phone calls or directions that you might need, contact your escort directly, and make sure to do it conspicuously.

Make sure you have the cash ready – preferably the exact right amount. Your escort doesn’t want to fiddle around finding you change for the money that you’ve given her, and this only drags out extra minutes from your precious time. Have the cash ready, in the right amount and make sure you give it to your escort within the first ten minutes. Once this has been accepted, you can settle in and spend some time together – so this is one that will help you, as much as it will help her.

If you have any special requests, or wish to bring her presents, make sure that you’ve discussed this before hand. No escort is a mind reader, and so if you have particular outfit requests, would like to try certain things or would like to meet in a certain place – you need to make sure that you’ve let your escort know. Similarly, it’s always good to check about bringing presents for an escort, to ensure that she accepts alcohol, and doesn’t have allergies that may be issues for other presents. It’s just a minor thing, but could afford some awkward exchanges on the day.

All in all – there are some basic things that you can do in order to ensure that your visit goes as smoothly, and pleasantly, as possible – so always make sure that you’re thinking ahead, you’ll thank yourself for it later, trust me.